June 2, 2013
“Cancer Is Not Pink”is a place where I can keep track of every step of this journey as I move breast cancer out of my life. This blog is not dedicated to writing about breast cancer exclusively. I love to write and will mix fun into my writings here as I join writing and photography communities. But, for now, back to breast cancer, it’s amazing how much has already become foggy in only a week, there is so much going on.
So far, everyday, since they called me back for the 2nd mammogram, my life has become “about” appointments and networking with family members and friends who have survived breast cancer. Every story differs, every cancer situation is unique as well as courses of treatment. Yet, I have been diligent talking with so many cancer survivors and so thankfully blessed that yes, these women are a part of a sisterhood that none chose to join, but willingly put themselves out there to help other women who are just beginning their journey, like me.
As I said, this is my journey, my journal, to help me remember dates, tests, procedures, appointments and whatever else I may need to remember. It may also be of benefit to my family since there is a strong history of cancer on both maternal and paternal sides. It is not intended to give advice to anyone, but, if sharing my story may be of help to someone, that’s good.
My initial diagnosis came on June 24, 2013…I received the particulars of the Biopsy report EXCEPT for the prognostic marker studies. Here are the particulars:
Researching this at Johns Hopkins, I found the following:
This is good news!!
A little bit more “about” me…
I thought I’d have a little fun with my “About” section. I made a little collage of events happening in the year I was born, along with popular television programs, magazines, and newspaper headlines. Here are a few things that were going on, the day I was born:
• The White Sox lost to the NY Yankees 1-0 with the Yankees scoring the only run of the game in the 2nd inning
• Morning temperature in Chicago was 64 F, humidity 54% and no rain
• Swanson’s sells its first TV Dinner
• Senator John F. Kennedy (D-MA) and Miss Jaqueline Bouvier of Newport, RI, will be married days later
• #1 song on that day, Les Paul and Mary Ford – Vaya Con Dios
• What was on television? The Life of Riley, Mr. Peepers, Make Room for Daddy, The Honeymooners, The Adventures of Superman, George Burns and Gracie Allen, The Howdy Doody Show, The Lone Ranger and actually many, many more shows were in production.
Other events which happened the year I was born:
• Average cost of a new home, $9,550.00
• Average wages per year, $4,000.00
• Cost of a gallon of Gasoline, 20¢ per gallon
• Average cost of new car, $1,650.00
• Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay perform the first successful ascent to the summit of Mount Everest
• Stalin died
• Dr. Jonas E. Salk, announced a vaccine had been used safely and successfully used in preliminary trials on 90 children and adults as a polio vaccine
• Ian Fleming publishes his first James Bond novel, Casino Royale in the United Kingdom
• Playboy Magazine’s 1st issue features Marilyn Monroe as its first cover girl and nude centerfold.
• New York Yankees win fifth world series in a row
All the roads I’ve traveled and people I have met contributed to who I am today – wife, mother, grandmother, freelance graphic artist, web designer, retired Finance Manager and new to the list, Blogger!
Thanks for stopping by!

©Swoosieque
Mikey and I in 2013
Since beginning this blog, as I have been counting down my own five-year survival mark after having breast cancer removed from my body, a tragedy struck in June of 2015. One of my sons, Mikey, was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and died after a grueling experience with it. I have forever been changed, especially after watching him die slowly before my very eyes.
DISCLAIMER: The information contained in my blog is about my experience and in no way is intended to suffice for medical advice.
Just nominated you for a Sunshine award. Hope you like!http://geanieroake.wordpress.com/2013/10/30/sunshine-award-3/
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Thank you! 🙂
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Thank you so much! 🙂
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You can beat this. Keep your spirits up. My grandson, Michael, conquered brain cancer at the age of two. It is in my blog. Maybe if you read it, it might help. Good luck. Barry
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Oh, God bless him! And YOU! And thank you so much for taking the time to leave a message! 🙂
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If we all do not stick together what is the sense to humanity?
Fighting this will be hard but a good sense of humor does help. Keep up the positive attitude. Take care, Barry and Alice.
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Hey there! So why do they associate the battle against cancer with the color pink? Anyway thanks for following my blog, I hope you are enjoying it! Best wishes, Zainab
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Not sure, but I think it originated with the pink ribbon which began with the Susan G. Komen Foundation and from there, pink evolved with breast cancer awareness so that pink, in general, calls up thoughts of breast cancer.
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Just wanted to say thanks for the lovely poem, will use it at my Mum’s funeral.
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Oh, how lovely. I’m so glad it helped. It sure helped me when my Mom passed. Bless you Wendy! 🙂
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You write about this stuff well, sister. Thanks for following the Jenn stories.
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Thank you so much for the compliment! That is going to make my day, no, week!! 🙂
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I can’t begin to thank you enough for stopping over and visiting my humble blog-o-thing! It truly means so very much to me. Be inspired and please take care.
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I thank YOU for stopping over here and taking the time to leave a comment! 🙂
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Wishing you all the very best!
Love, Dina
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Thank you so much Dina!
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Hi, I’ve nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award. Congratulations! Please check out this post for details: http://zainabjavid.wordpress.com/2013/12/06/the-versatile-blogger-award/
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I am so late with responding… gheez. I’m planning to work on award posts this weekend and link back to you. Thanks ever so much for the nomination!
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No problem. I also have some awards which I still haven’t done. It’s hard work and time consuming. Anyway congratulations!
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Thanks for the follow! Cancer sucks. Keep working at kicking its a$$!!!! ~Gina
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Hi dear friend. Your blog has truly inspired me. I have nominated you for the Sunshine Award. Please accept and keep up the good work. Keep on fighting 😀
http://audreyhepburnbooks.wordpress.com/2014/01/22/the-sunshine-award/
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Just to let you know that I have nominated your blog for the Leibster award: http://yellowmumblog.wordpress.com/2014/01/25/976/
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THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!
I will get started on this right now! 😀
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Hey there. Hope you are doing well this spring day. I’ve nominated you for a lighthouse award. You can see the nomination and rules (this one doesn’t have many-yah) here: http://psychologistmimi.com/2014/03/31/as-a-puerto-rican-who-loves-lighthouses-im-excited-to-be-nominated-for-a-lighthouse-award/ If you don’t do/accept nominations, it’s cool as well. Cheers. Mimi
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Hi Psych! Sorry I did not notice your nomination until today (5 months later) EEK! I will be busy paying it forwarded this weekend. And, THANK YOU so much!! 😀
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Haha. That’s totally cool. I’ve been in the same boat. Have a great weekend
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Hello! I have nominated you for the Liebster award. If you are interested in participating, please feel free to stop by at (http://ubecute.com/2014/04/20/share-the-love-with-the-liebster-award/) and check out the rules. Either way, I just wanted to acknowledge you and your work.
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Thank you so much! 😀
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You are very welcome 🙂
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something about courage as are many others the courage you display to face your obstacles is a welcome boost to remember to keep fighting well done ,, done soon I hope god [non religious moniker I use as short for great other dimension] bless !!!!!
collage very cool idea I like!!!!!!!
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Thank you! I’ll just keep on keepin’ on. 😉
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Hey there! Just tuned into your blog randomly and gave you a follow. If you like, come visit me and join the fun at http://www.thatssojacob.wordpress.com. Have a great day!
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You are an inspiration! Wish you all the best 🙂
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Thank you so much! 😀
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I love your blog! You are a great writer and very funny. I am a nurse and professor and have lived 25 years with a diagnosis of less well differentiated cells, so that is good news for you.I also taught at UMAB and had students at the University of Maryland in the 80″s, so I know Johns Hopkins and it seems like a great place. I imagine you are in very good hands.
Ellen from deluca2014.com
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Thank you ever so much for your compliments! I feel honored to add you to my ‘breast cancer resources’ links. It is especially important to know that you have been through this! And, survived 25 years! You’d need a big cupcake to hold those 25 candles!
Thank you again for stopping by. But, please remember to use the term “Breast Cancer” in both, categories AND tags in your posts – one is not the same as the other. 😀
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Swoosieque
Thanks for the advice-just learning!
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No problem. I’m far from being an expert, but, with everything you have to offer the community, I just thought I’d give you one of the few tips I know. 😀
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Interesting essay you got here … gave me an idea how I should write about the day I was born could be interesting — your is, many great things happen that year when you can into being 🙂
Good luck in your journey, I feel for you — my family and I went through the cycle of cancer with my Mom, it was hard but it was also a life changing experience, growing in love for the gift of life.
xox
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Oh, thank you! It is fun to research what was going on the day and year one was born, and the prices of things! You’ll have fun doing that! I’ll have fun reading it! 😀
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Hi, thank you for “liking” my Dialysis Kidney post, good to meet you! 🙂
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Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. God bless! 🙂
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Thank you so very much for your comment! 😀
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Thank you for visiting and liking my blog entry.
I am a breast cancer survivor – five and a half years cancer-free! 🙂
All the very best in your own journey along the road to beating cancer! 🙂
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And thank you so much in return! Congratulations on the five and a half years cancer-free, let’s root for thirty-plus more! 😀
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Thanks for visiting and liking my blog. If you like your can download and pray the Prayer book for the sick. This is a very good prayer. I pray it daily.
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You are so kind! Thank you!
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You are welcome. May God bless you
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Thanks for visiting my blog, Swoosieque. I, too, am a breast cancer survivor. (stage two) I had my surgery in Dec 1980 when I was 27.
I’m intrigued to learn that the things that happened during your birth year happened in mine as well! I was here and squalling before Hillary topped Mt. Everest.
Best wishes in your recovery process.
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I’m in good company with you! 😀 And congratulations as a fellow survivor!!
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I am hooked to keep coming back here to read your posts and for that I nominated you for the One Lovely Blog Award and I hope you will accept and pass it forward. Here is the link http://mydecadelongtravels.wordpress.com/2014/10/12/first-nomination-one-lovely-blog-award/
Keep on writing. Good luck.
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Thank you so very much D!
I am honored to be nominated by you and accept the award! 😀
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Hi, On October 9 you posted this on my blog:
“Write what is in your heart, let it lead you. Let the critics have their say, but write, write, write anyway.”. Would you be so kind as to grant me permission to begin my intro with this please? In return, I would be glad to post you a copy of a hardcover copy of my book (postage paid), we are targeting mid December! Please let me know, thanks! Vonita.
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Oh Sweetie, I feel honored at your request but you owe me nothing! Of course you may use what I posted on your blog on Oct. 9th and I am so happy that your book will be out in mid December! How exciting!
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Yes! Very exciting, I’m pumped! But I don’t think I will be selling many, will have to order a bulk batch, I am of the type – would you like a book, here gift from me! (I love my book!) Thank you, I’ve already done the introduction, and used that little quote it fits in perfectly, but I thought perhaps I should clear it with the author first! 🙂
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Really enjoyed your introduction, and I do wish you every success with your plan to rid yourself of the cancer. Such a vibrant person hasn’t time for such things!! Thanks so much for following my blog!
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Blessings and more blessings!! How courageous of you to write about it!!
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Thank you! There’s an old saying that I love, “Courage is Fear that said its prayers.” And believe me, I quietly harbored a ton of fears. 😉
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You are up for another award because you rock that much! It’s a the Liebster Award. You can check out the rules here:
http://cartervail.wordpress.com/2014/10/25/liebster-award/
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Just thought I would give you a Great BIG virtual hug😇
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Love it! And here’s one right back at ya’! {{{HUGS}}} 😀
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Just passing through to wish you a happy thanksgiving!
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Sorry I missed this, I was sick on Thanksgiving and still fighting a blasted head cold but trying to catch up with my blogging friends. I hope yours was filled with good food and family and friends! 😀
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Hi Swoosie Que,
I came across your blog via Blog Her (NaBloPoMo) and am following you. I nominated you for a Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Thank you for your writing!
http://tiffscribes.com/2014/12/29/very-inspiring-blogger-award/
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Thank you so much Tiffany. I also followed you and will work on the award after the 1st of the year. Have a wonderful day and Happy New Year! 😀
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Hi Swoosieque I hope you don’t mind but I nominated you for the Premio Dardos Award, it’s sitting on my blog just waiting for you
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Thank you! I will stop by and pick up the award! 😀
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😊have a great day!!
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Hello there! I just wanted to say that you have an incredible blog, and I enjoy reading your work. I also think your writing is inspiring, refreshing, and apt!
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Thank you so much. I haven’t been writing much lately, my son had pancreatic cancer and recently passed on. My sorrow is so deep right now, but, when I start writing again… it’s like the saying, “When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person that walked in. That’s what the storm is all about.”
Thanks so much for your kind words.
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You’re very welcome. You are very strong, and I have a lot respect for both you and what you do. All the best.
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I am so sorry to hear of your son’s passing. This is such a terrible disease. I have lost so many loved ones to it. I can only imagine the pain you are in and I grieve with you.
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Thank you Marilyn.
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I was prepared to congratulate you on beating your struggles with breast cancer and say “you go girl!”, but I just read your comment above about your son, and I too am so very sorry… I lost a couple family members to cancer within the last 10 years, and my heart breaks even to this day anytime I see photos of all of us… the saying about the storm that you quoted is so apropos, adding that you become a stronger person when you come out. Just like another saying, which is my favorite, that goes “that which does not kill us makes us stronger”.
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Ahhh… that’s another favorite from mine that I recall from Conan the Barbarian! 😀
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I first heard the saying from the movie “Steel Magnolias”, which is one of my alltime favorite!
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Swoosieque, we haven’t heard from you in a while. How are you doing?
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Time has just been flying by with one thing or another, mostly, my husband with his illnesses. I’m growing stronger as I will be passing through the second-year anniversary of my son’s death to pancreatic cancer, but, I’m being strong, just as he would want me to be. Hope to catch up with you soon, Steph! Thanks for checking in with me! 😀
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