A Life Moved by Music

I was hoping to “cheat” today and merely post an outstanding photo of something or someone, write a little quip and be off to do the hundred things I need to do today, but, oh, no, not me!  I had to stop by Word Press’ Daily Post, just in case something interesting might truly validate an honest effort to write something today, and there it was, jumping out at me, “Moved by Music.”  I knew in an instant, I had to honor this subject by writing a little more than just a quick quip.  You see, music supported the household in which I was raised.


Dad’s 1st Home
Built by Granpa

Dad was born in 1918, in a cabin which his father built on their land in Knowlton, Wisconsin.  The second son, third of eight children born to Polish immigrants, Dad grew up like any of the other boys in that community, in that time – he was full of ambition and dreams, and he knew what he wanted to be when he grew up, a professional musician, an accordionist.  This dream was conceived when the family attended a wedding where an Italian accordionist mesmerized the guests with his unrestrained version of Flight of the Bumblebee.  Dad was stung (sorry, I just couldn’t resist the pun)  by the desire to “be” that accordion player in his own life.

There was a big problem in attaining Dad’s dream though, how to afford buying the expensive instrument and if by some chance he acquired it, learning to play it would present a new problem since there would be no money for lessons.  Call it fate, destiny, luck or just coincidence,  there was to be a musical talent contest at the upcoming Fall Fair and the grand prize was a gleaming, brand new accordion!


A circa 1920’s

Strapping his thinking cap on securely, Dad had to figure out how he was going to win a musical talent contest when he had no musical instrument to play, other than maybe spoons or milk jugs and he didn’t think those could produce a fine enough tune to win the contest.  He had to solve this dilemma, his future, his life, the lives of his future wife and children depended on this talent contest!

What kind of instrument could he afford with limited monies from glass bottle refunds at the local general store and learn to play it in a matter of weeks?

A  HARMONICA, of course!

When Dad saved enough money from the bottle refunds, he set out to purchase his brand new harmonica.  Between school work and chores on the farm, Dad taught himself how to play the harmonica without any instructions nor guidance from anyone.  He was a quick learner, but more importantly, Dad had a natural talent for music, one which some of his six children inherited.  I was NOT one of the naturally blessed musical offspring.



I do not recall what melody Dad said that he played for the contest, I do not recall what other talents he competed against or what songs the others played, but, my Dad won first prize!

From that winning day forward, Dad taught himself how to play the accordion, how to read music and taught his three other brothers how to play as well.  They formed a band and would play at local events, parties, and social gatherings.


Dad, Uncle A.J. &
Cousin Richey

As they matured, and their local notoriety grew, (by this point, the grown brothers  were living in Chicago) they invested in their own music school with TWO locations!   They continued to entertain and play at many, many events.

Dad continued playing his accordion, well into his 80’s, I personally believe that he lived for the music.  He stopped playing when he could no longer physically manage to carry the cumbersome accordion, amplifier and paraphernalia to each event.  He died three months later, at home, in his bed.

During one of my occasions sitting with him as he lay dying, he asked me to “..turn that music up..”  There was no music playing, no radio, no television.  I proceeded to turn a radio on and turned the music up loud.  “No, no, no, that’s not the music, the OTHER music, turn the OTHER music up.”  Tears welled up in my eyes as I realized that what my Dad was hearing was not music from this realm.  I could not enhance the vibrations nor bring him closer to it, he had to do that on his own.

After all of his six children went home, a private nurse/caregiver watched over him that last night as he quietly slipped away to her singing hymns in Polish.  He followed the music home –  for the last time.  

Love and miss you Dad.


Dad with his accordion
Circa 1930’s



12 responses to “A Life Moved by Music

  1. I also entered the music challenge and I’m visiting other sites to see how other bloggers interpreted the task. You have given the world a lovely tribute to his father. When our time comes, how nice it would be to hear the music. Beautiful.


    • Aw, thank you so very much for taking the time to leave a comment! And yes, I hope when my time comes, maybe I’ll even hear my own Dad playing the accordion in that Band in the Sky! 😉


  2. This is a wonderfully moving post. Thanks from all of us who stopped by to read it.


  3. This is an awesome story. Thanks for sharing it.


    • Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to leave a comment. My Dad was a pretty amazing guy, it’s always easy to write about him… some time, I’ll have to write about his days in WWII – he was a cryptographer. 🙂


  4. This was touching, and beautiful. Thank you for sharing it.


  5. Great story! I wish I were more musically inclined, I have to work for it.
    My husband on the other hand, I could listen to him play guitar all day.


  6. Thanks for sharing this. A beautifully written memoir… Music is such part of my household too, I think sometimes we take it for granted and then it will hit you powerfully when you least expect it, that music is intrinsic to so many things we do. Certain pieces of music linked forever with certain events in our lives..


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